Hey there...first of all, i have heard some debate regarding the use of the classical rulerships of planets....
As I said, I use the outer planets rarely if at all. Despite what the moderns are saying. Your mileage, as the saying goes, may vary.second, i had no idea that the querent or quesited could be represented by so many planets!
Yep. Querent always gets Lord 1 and the Moon, unless the Moon is busy representing someone else. Only in man/woman relationship charts do you start assigning Sun to him and Venus to her - again, only if they're not previously occupied.third, why does the moon in libra have anything to do with that being the sun's fall?
Right, let me see if I can explain. In the tradition, the way to find out how MY planet feels about YOU is to look at the sign I'm in, and see whether I'm in any dignity or debility of yours. You need to look at a table of essential dignities
to figure that out.
Don't panic. Here's an example. Your planets in this chart are Saturn, Venus, and Moon, right? His planet is the Sun in Cancer.
Saturn is in Leo. Leo is ruled by the Sun. So Saturn loves the Sun.
Venus is in Leo. Venus loves the Sun, too.
Moon is in Libra. Libra is the sign of the Sun's fall. So the Moon does not like the Sun.
Sun is in Cancer. Cancer is ruled by the Moon. Sun loves the Moon.
But! Cancer is the sign of Saturn's detriment. Sun dislikes the Moon.
How can the Sun love part of you and dislike part of you? How can part of you love the Sun and part of you dislike it? That is often the way it is, isn't it? I love a, b, c about my guy but I hate when he does x, y, z...so if it was the sun in aries, with all other significators for me being the same, then that would NOT be an indicator of positive feelings towards me. correct?
If all other factors were the same, but the Sun IN THIS HORARY were in Aries, yes, I'd have to judge that something was seriously wrong. Because Aries is the sign of Venus' detriment and Saturn's fall. So that would mean that whatever the Sun represented had a huge problem with you.
(I don't recommend that people start comparing natal charts and going "he loves me, he loves me not" all over the place with this stuff... ay yi yi.)fifth, i do not understand "he is also in the detriment of you as saturn". why is he saturn? i thought i was saturn...
Sorry, my syntax must not have been clear. He is also in the detriment of "you-as-Saturn". You are still Saturn.sixth, your last paragraph confused me a little....
Ooh, sorry. Once more in English: there is an indication that someone he used to like may be coming back, but he has no interest in her now, and really she doesn't have any interest in him either. And his love for you gets in the way of anything taking place between the two of them. So don't worry about him cheating... I don't believe he is.